The word good can be defined as of high quality,superior, beneficial, advantageous, well-mannered, of profit, fine, competent, etc. I think most women start out looking for these traits in the men they chose. But, somewhere down the line some lose focus on what the word good means or better yet take the word good and blow it out of proportion. Is a totally flawlessly perfect man hard to find? Hell yeah! The ideal man to me would be one gainfully employed, disease free, drama free, strictly heterosexual, non-abusive, attractive, honest, caring, and has no more than 2.7 kids! I think it all depends on what a person defines as good. What's one's trash is another's treasure.
Now, on the other hand some women don't want nor desire a good man. There are those who prefer the "thug bad boy goon type". More power to those females that do. I honestly feel that some women enjoy the drama that comes with dating that "thug type" of guy. It brings out the animalistic side of them. I think there are some women who are so desparate for attention from their man that they actually enjoy a good confrontation. You know the ones, "if he hits me then he must love me" type. And let's not for get the females that will fight a man at the drop of a dime. For example, Carol takes a Louisville slugger and attacks her boyfriend, she then proceeds to chase behind him and try to attack him again. Next, her boyfriend picks up a wooden two by four and throws it at her and breaks her arm. And yep, you guessed it they're still together. She didn't mean to hit him and he didn't mean to break her arm. "It won't happen again". Yeah it will. But the consequences may be more deadly.
So no a good man isn't hard to find. But it depends on that woman's definition of a good man.
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