Charlotte's Movie Date

Well it's raining out and I just found out that Charlotte has a movie date tonight! She says she has been hanging out with this guy since September 08. He's supposed to also be paying her car payment out of the kindness of his heart. Well, bless his heart. We need more kindhearted, help feed the children, I'm doing this to make a change folks like him. Yeah right. I honestly think that a man can go out and screw as many women as he likes and be labeled a "playa" or a "dawg". And I also believe that men who do this and eventually change are forgiven and just patted on the shoulder. No scathing nor scarring of the rep. You know just sowing his oats. You know the saying. But when a woman does this she will be labeled a "ho" for life. Now matter how much changing she does. You know the sayings "once a 'ho' always a 'ho'" and this one "you can't turn a 'ho' into a housewife". But I think that Charlotte doesn't see this. Sometimes you can lie to yourself so bad until you actually start to believe the lie. And this is what Charlotte has done perpetuated a lie. Is this destructive behavior, self hatred, a form of compensation for a broken heart, or just stupidity. Or maybe it's a combination of things. But one thing I now for sure is this cannot be mentally healthy. How can one spread themselves so thin? How much attention can one want? And yes, I tried to confront Charlotte, but she swears she's not sleeping with these men. Wooooow! Maybe this isn't a job for a friend, but a psycoanalyst. Well it is what it is?! Well tomorrow I'll layoff on Charlotte some and will talk about, "Is A Good Man Hard To Find Or Is A Good Man Not What You're Looking For?"